I pause tonight to reflect on one message of HOPE I would like to share.
My last message about YouTube or video placement for your business reached a audience of 1,305 visitors according to Google. I will resume my best business practices on the next post.
I hope this touches a handful or even the 1 reader that might take meaning from this post.
The boss shut the door on my face and shut his blinds on his windows. My manager barely acknowledges me in the hall and rather pretend to be reading his blackberry even while I was the top salesman for the month. The Human Resources department is aloof and always unavailable. My sales manager constantly belittles me while I show the company nothing but hard work and long work. The person that interviewed or I report too has one tenth of my knowledge.
STOP IT.
YOU CHOOSE THIS.
Benjamin Haines coined this powerful phrase. Top notch car salesman I had the pleasure of working with and one heck of a shoe collection.
Okay, times in this economy are tough. Reports of “cattle car” interviews. Meetings with encouraging words like, “We have tons of people dying for your job”. I know we all have bills, families, dreams. The cost of gas, etc, etc. I know we are expecting a answer like I have a get rich system where you can work from home in your slippers.
YOU CHOOSE THE NEGATIVE OUTLOOK.
What do you have to be THANKFUL FOR?
The relationships with your co-workers? Relationships with your clients? The experience of what to do or what NOT TO DO. Even in the worse places or situations I have seen positive learning or people come forward. I personally have had NO’s thrown in my face in a sales role every single day but all it takes is a YES. What did I learn with all those NO’s? What not to say or offer.
My friends even as a young man standing in the hot sun at a recycling plant sorting metals from plastic and the swarms of flies attacking me I learned something. What I did not want to do for the rest of my life.
I challenge you to encourage others and reply back to this post with one example of how you choose to take something so negative but turned into either a learning experience or a positive one.
Remember, be thankful for each and every opportunity, it molds the beautiful person you CHOOSE to be.
Regards,
Paul





